{"id":1476,"date":"2017-04-23T20:59:54","date_gmt":"2017-04-23T20:59:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.naimahassert.com\/?p=1476"},"modified":"2025-11-09T23:34:40","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T03:34:40","slug":"men-marry-bitches-womans-guide-winning-mans-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/prochainelecture.com\/en\/men-marry-bitches-womans-guide-winning-mans-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Men Marry Bitches – A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00catre c\u00e9libataire, c’est plate. J’ai le go\u00fbt d’avoir du fun et de partager ma vie avec quelqu’un de bien. Mais non, \u00e0 la place, je m’entiche de gars avec qui il n’y a pas d’avenir et apr\u00e8s je d\u00e9prime. Moi, tann\u00e9e. J’imagine qu’on a fini par avoir piti\u00e9 : on m’a donn\u00e9 ce livre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

First, a warning: when the author talks about \"bitches\", it should be taken with humor. According to her lexicon, a bitch is an independent woman, who doesn't need anyone, who says what she thinks and who won't let herself be walked over. This is both good for her, and good for her future relationship, because men don't like sluts. Playing nice may come naturally to many of us, but it's not a winner. Solution: stop it! She tells us how to do it in 74 \"relationship principles\", divided into 7 categories.<\/p>\n

1- Destroy the myths, or throw the women's magazines in the garbage<\/h3>\n

We're talking about the perfect woman, the sex bomb and the yes-girl. Guys don't want a doll. They want a girlfriend to... have fun with and share their life with.<\/p>\n

2- Let yourself be chased<\/h3>\n

Not a new principle at all. Guys love to chase girls. Otherwise, it's too easy and they lose interest. I know, you won't believe me. Too bad for you.<\/p>\n

3- Light the fire in their pants<\/h3>\n

That was new to me. I'll save the punch for you.<\/p>\n

4- Know the guys' little games<\/h3>\n

It's not mean, but they want to know who they're dealing with. They'll try to find the girl's weaknesses and press them. If she responds well, she'll earn their respect. Don't take it too personal.<\/p>\n

5- Have a professional life<\/h3>\n

A guy is going to want to spend his life with a woman who can earn at least enough money to live on. He'll be happy to take her on dates, but he doesn't want her to depend on him. It's a big turn-off.<\/p>\n

6- Get inside their head<\/h3>\n

The author says she has interviewed hundreds of guys who have told her what turns them on and what doesn't in girls. She gives us the highlights. Aoutch.<\/p>\n

7- Get him to commit<\/h3>\n

The trick is to make sure he's the one who wants to do it. And a guy in love is a guy who wants to spend his life with his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

The most interesting: the moral<\/h3>\n

Not corny at all, this book gave me an incredible energy, because it reminded me that I'm hot. (Unfortunately, that's easy to forget.) A lot of guys are going to be interested, but I have to look at what they can bring to me. How do I feel with them and after I see them? Do I feel worthless, put down, disappointed, uncomfortable, sad, insecure? (Rather than saying \"Maybe it's my fault? Maybe he's an amazing guy and I could be happy with him if I did it the right way?\" No. There's nothing behind the hill.)\u00a0Or funny, beautiful and confident?\u00a0The ones that make us feel that way are worth treasuring. And it starts with taking care of ourselves.<\/p>\n

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Why Men Marry Bitches : A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Sherry Argov\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u00catre c\u00e9libataire, c’est plate. J’ai le go\u00fbt d’avoir du fun et de partager ma vie avec quelqu’un de bien. Mais non, \u00e0 la place, je m’entiche de gars avec qui il n’y a pas d’avenir et apr\u00e8s je d\u00e9prime. Moi, tann\u00e9e. J’imagine qu’on a fini par avoir piti\u00e9 : on m’a donn\u00e9 ce livre. D\u00e9j\u00e0, un avertissement : quand l’auteure parle des “bitchs”, il faut le prendre avec humour. Selon son lexique, une bitch est une femme ind\u00e9pendante, qui n’a besoin de personne, qui dit ce qu’elle pense et qui ne va pas se laisser marcher sur les pieds. C’est \u00e0 la fois bon pour elle, et bon pour sa future relation, parce que les hommes n’aiment pas les moumounes. Faire la gentille, c’est peut-\u00eatre naturel pour beaucoup d’entre nous, mais c’est pas gagnant. Solution : arr\u00eater \u00e7a! 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Ne pas le prendre trop personnel. 5- Avoir une vie professionnelle Un gars va vouloir passer sa vie avec une femme qui sait gagner au moins assez d’argent pour vivre. \u00c7a lui fera plaisir de l’inviter \u00e0 des dates, mais il ne veut pas qu’elle d\u00e9pende de lui. C’est un gros turn-off. 6- Se mettre dans sa t\u00eate L’auteure dit avoir interview\u00e9 des centaines de gars qui lui ont r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 ce qui les allumaient ou pas chez les filles. Elle nous donne les grandes lignes. Aoutch. 7- L’amener \u00e0 s’engager Le truc : s’arranger pour que ce soit lui qui veuille le faire. Et un gars en amour, c’est un gars qui veut passer sa vie avec\u00a0sa blonde. Le plus int\u00e9ressant : la morale Pas cucul du tout, ce livre m’a donn\u00e9 une \u00e9nergie incroyable, parce qu’il m’a rappel\u00e9 que je suis hot. (Malheureusement, c’est facile\u00a0\u00e0 oublier.) Beaucoup de gars vont \u00eatre int\u00e9ress\u00e9s, mais il faut que je regarde ce qu’ils peuvent m’apporter, \u00e0 moi. Comment je me sens avec eux et apr\u00e8s que je les ai vus? Est-ce que je me sens nulle, rabaiss\u00e9e, d\u00e9\u00e7ue, mal \u00e0 l’aise, triste, ins\u00e9cure? Je flushe. (Plut\u00f4t que de dire “Peut-\u00eatre que c’est ma faute? Peut-\u00eatre que c’est un gars incroyable et que je pourrais \u00eatre heureuse avec si j’agissais de la bonne mani\u00e8re?” Non. Il n’y a rien derri\u00e8re la colline.)\u00a0Ou bien dr\u00f4le, belle et en confiance?\u00a0Ceux qui nous font sentir comme \u00e7a sont \u00e0 conserver pr\u00e9cieusement. Et \u00e7a commence par prendre soin de soi. 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J’ai le go\u00fbt d’avoir du fun et de partager ma vie avec quelqu’un de bien. Mais non, \u00e0 la place, je m’entiche de gars avec qui il n’y a pas d’avenir et apr\u00e8s je d\u00e9prime. Moi, tann\u00e9e. J’imagine qu’on a fini par avoir piti\u00e9 : on m’a donn\u00e9 ce livre. D\u00e9j\u00e0, un avertissement : quand l’auteure parle des “bitchs”, il faut le prendre avec humour. Selon son lexique, une bitch est une femme ind\u00e9pendante, qui n’a besoin de personne, qui dit ce qu’elle pense et qui ne va pas se laisser marcher sur les pieds. C’est \u00e0 la fois bon pour elle, et bon pour sa future relation, parce que les hommes n’aiment pas les moumounes. Faire la gentille, c’est peut-\u00eatre naturel pour beaucoup d’entre nous, mais c’est pas gagnant. Solution : arr\u00eater \u00e7a! Elle nous dit comment faire en 74 “principes relationnels”, divis\u00e9s en 7 cat\u00e9gories. 1- D\u00e9truire les mythes, ou jeter les magazines f\u00e9minins \u00e0 la poubelle On parle de la femme parfaite, la bombe de sexe et la yes-girl. Les gars ne veulent pas d’une poup\u00e9e. Ils veulent une blonde avec qui… avoir du fun et partager leur vie. 2- Se laisser courir apr\u00e8s Un principe pas nouveau du tout. Les gars adorent \u00e7a courir apr\u00e8s les filles. Sinon, c’est trop facile et ils perdent l’int\u00e9r\u00eat. Je sais, vous me croirez pas. Tant pis pour vous. 3- Allumer le feu\u00a0dans ses pantalons \u00c7a, c’\u00e9tait du nouveau pour moi. Je vous r\u00e9serve le punch. 4- Conna\u00eetre les petits jeux des gars C’est pas m\u00e9chant, mais ils veulent savoir \u00e0 qui ils font affaire. Ils vont essayer de trouver les points faibles de la fille et d’appuyer dessus. Si elle r\u00e9pond bien, elle va gagner son respect. Ne pas le prendre trop personnel. 5- Avoir une vie professionnelle Un gars va vouloir passer sa vie avec une femme qui sait gagner au moins assez d’argent pour vivre. \u00c7a lui fera plaisir de l’inviter \u00e0 des dates, mais il ne veut pas qu’elle d\u00e9pende de lui. C’est un gros turn-off. 6- Se mettre dans sa t\u00eate L’auteure dit avoir interview\u00e9 des centaines de gars qui lui ont r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 ce qui les allumaient ou pas chez les filles. Elle nous donne les grandes lignes. Aoutch. 7- L’amener \u00e0 s’engager Le truc : s’arranger pour que ce soit lui qui veuille le faire. Et un gars en amour, c’est un gars qui veut passer sa vie avec\u00a0sa blonde. Le plus int\u00e9ressant : la morale Pas cucul du tout, ce livre m’a donn\u00e9 une \u00e9nergie incroyable, parce qu’il m’a rappel\u00e9 que je suis hot. (Malheureusement, c’est facile\u00a0\u00e0 oublier.) Beaucoup de gars vont \u00eatre int\u00e9ress\u00e9s, mais il faut que je regarde ce qu’ils peuvent m’apporter, \u00e0 moi. Comment je me sens avec eux et apr\u00e8s que je les ai vus? Est-ce que je me sens nulle, rabaiss\u00e9e, d\u00e9\u00e7ue, mal \u00e0 l’aise, triste, ins\u00e9cure? Je flushe. (Plut\u00f4t que de dire “Peut-\u00eatre que c’est ma faute? Peut-\u00eatre que c’est un gars incroyable et que je pourrais \u00eatre heureuse avec si j’agissais de la bonne mani\u00e8re?” Non. Il n’y a rien derri\u00e8re la colline.)\u00a0Ou bien dr\u00f4le, belle et en confiance?\u00a0Ceux qui nous font sentir comme \u00e7a sont \u00e0 conserver pr\u00e9cieusement. Et \u00e7a commence par prendre soin de soi. 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