Why Men Marry Bitches – A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart
Being single is boring. I want to have fun and share my life with someone good. But no, instead, I get infatuated with guys with whom there is no future and then I get depressed. Me, tired. I guess they finally felt sorry for me: they gave me this book.
First, a warning: when the author talks about "bitches", it should be taken with humor. According to her lexicon, a bitch is an independent woman, who doesn't need anyone, who says what she thinks and who won't let herself be walked over. This is both good for her, and good for her future relationship, because men don't like sluts. Playing nice may come naturally to many of us, but it's not a winner. Solution: stop it! She tells us how to do it in 74 "relationship principles", divided into 7 categories.
1- Destroy the myths, or throw the women's magazines in the garbage
We're talking about the perfect woman, the sex bomb and the yes-girl. Guys don't want a doll. They want a girlfriend to... have fun with and share their life with.
2- Let yourself be chased
Not a new principle at all. Guys love to chase girls. Otherwise, it's too easy and they lose interest. I know, you won't believe me. Too bad for you.
3- Light the fire in their pants
That was new to me. I'll save the punch for you.
4- Know the guys' little games
It's not mean, but they want to know who they're dealing with. They'll try to find the girl's weaknesses and press them. If she responds well, she'll earn their respect. Don't take it too personal.
5- Have a professional life
A guy is going to want to spend his life with a woman who can earn at least enough money to live on. He'll be happy to take her on dates, but he doesn't want her to depend on him. It's a big turn-off.
6- Get inside their head
The author says she has interviewed hundreds of guys who have told her what turns them on and what doesn't in girls. She gives us the highlights. Aoutch.
7- Get him to commit
The trick is to make sure he's the one who wants to do it. And a guy in love is a guy who wants to spend his life with his girlfriend.
The most interesting: the moral
Not corny at all, this book gave me an incredible energy, because it reminded me that I'm hot. (Unfortunately, that's easy to forget.) A lot of guys are going to be interested, but I have to look at what they can bring to me. How do I feel with them and after I see them? Do I feel worthless, put down, disappointed, uncomfortable, sad, insecure? (Rather than saying "Maybe it's my fault? Maybe he's an amazing guy and I could be happy with him if I did it the right way?" No. There's nothing behind the hill.) Or funny, beautiful and confident? The ones that make us feel that way are worth treasuring. And it starts with taking care of ourselves.
Why Men Marry Bitches : A Woman’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart
Sherry Argov
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